Its useless to elaborate. It won't get through his thick head. So, I'm here to rant.
Inconsiderate and insensitive. And he doesn't have a clue that he is. Trying too much to please others gets you to become the opposite to those who matters. The balance is lost somewhere.
And its not true he does not have a choice. Its a matter of wanting and prioritizing-which he is very poor at. Same is true at making decisions. I hope oneday he realizes this...
Sometimes, I really think we speak a different language. I'm tired of this. Its the same issue over and over. There. I wrote it down here and I feel much better.